There are celebrity stories that trend for an afternoon — and then there are cultural flashpoints.

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A recent wave of online criticism told Jennifer Lopez — who turns 56 in 2025 — that her choice to wear a revealing red-carpet dress was “too much” for a woman her age.

Hours later, her former husband, Ben Affleck, publicly rejected that framing.

His quote was pointed, clear, and unmistakably protective:

“She’s more beautiful than anyone at 20. Anyone who dares to criticize should look in the mirror.”

It was not simply a comment about clothing.
It was a rejection of the idea that a woman’s autonomy — or her confidence — should diminish with time.

Why this hit a nerve

Fashion criticism has always been a proxy battle for something deeper:
who is allowed to be visible — and admired — in public space.

The age question has become especially sharp for women in film and music.

Lopez’s career, however, provides 30+ years of counter-evidence against the idea that women fade out in mid-life.

Career milestone
Year
Cultural impact

Selena
1997
first Latina actress to earn over $1M for a film role

J.Lo / The Wedding Planner
2001
first woman to have a No.1 album & No.1 film in the same week in the U.S.

On The Floor
2011
one of the best-selling singles ever; reached No.1 in 18 countries

Hustlers
2019
Golden Globe nomination

Estimated global record sales: ~70 million.

Those are not “nostalgia metrics.”
They are present-tense relevancy.

The fashion history matters too

Lopez has shaped internet culture before.

Her green Versace dress at the 2000 Grammy Awards didn’t just “go viral.”

It inspired Google to launch Google Image Search.

That is measurable cultural infrastructure change — sparked by one outfit.

Why Affleck’s quote resonated

The point was not to re-ignite a personal storyline between two former spouses.

The point was:

this is not about fabric — this is about permission.

When an older man plays an action lead, he is often praised for “still having it.”
When a woman stands confidently at mid-life, the question too often becomes whether she “should.”

Affleck’s line — “look in the mirror” — was not an insult.
It was a reminder of proportion:
critique of a body in a gown is easier than interrogating one’s bias.

The bigger take-away

Jennifer Lopez has always used visibility as a form of agency — not provocation.

From TIFF premieres to Instagram posts, the message is consistent:
style is self-expression, not a test one must age out of.

Affleck’s statement wasn’t a defense of one dress.

It was a defense of the idea that adults — especially women — do not need a permission slip to be bold.

And that is why the story went global.